Church With Jesse Lee Peterson

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/slWTs_YqQTs Jesse starts off service talking about the controversy of a man who said on a debate on TV, "Are you out of your cotton-pickin' mind?" This was a white man, who apparently inadvertently said it to a black man who was saying crazy things and not making sense. The white man used the expression, but did not know the man he was debating was blacks. Somehow they took it as a racially-tinged remark, called it offensive, and suspended the white man! So Jesse got opinions from people in the congregation whether he should have said it or not. It's a shame that people have decided to protect "groups" like blacks, homosexuals, and radical feminist women from "words." (Jesse mentions his producer James's show The Hake Report, and its theme song in the midst of this conversation.) We also talked with a grandmother who has attended BOND services for years. She admitted she still gets angry at times with her grandchildren whom she takes care of — Jesse asks her if she ever curses at the k

VIDEO: http://youtu.be/zSZtwA4hZnk At Church we dealt with a number of people both in-person and online asking about forgiving their mothers, dealing with fathers, and practicing the Silent Prayer. A few new people showed up, some expressing appreciation for Jesse’s message, and his telling the truth, helping them in their lives.One man said that he’s an Italian American, but that the negative culture of Italians — the mafia and other things — do not represent him. He said that he needed to forgive his father who hurt his mother and had people calling the house. In reality, though, these were his mother’s complaints, not his own. Women are very insecure due to the falling away from God with Eve. So they make the world revolve around them — when they’re angry at the father, they get the kids angry as well, so that the kids believe they’re angry at the father as well. But in reality, the anger is from the mother, and what she did — not the father.Another man thought Jesse was a “chump” for trying to rebuild the

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/rr9T-LlUyqU Father's Day, Jun 17, at Church, Jesse talks about and with weak fathers, their wives (or ex-wives) and their children, and the need to forgive mothers so that you can deal with men and women and with life in the right way. He talks about BOND's 9th annual Men's Conference the night before. He talks with a young Christian lady who asks why she needs to go face her mother to forgive her — Jesse says she's telling herself that she forgave her in her heart, but that's the cowardly way out. God said to go and forgive the person who wronged you, and be honest. If they don't listen, bring a friend. If they still don't listen, leave them alone and "let the dust hit your feet," meaning don't have anything to do with them. But she doesn't want to deal with all that drama. She mentions that she has not seen real men in her age category — that the guys she thought were good, who approached her, have all ended up "rejects." Jesse points out that people are afraid of their mothers — and

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/O37wMoO0A-E Over the past week, we discussed the Biblical Question of the Week: Do you believe in interracial dating and marriage? Many people don't have a problem with it, although they understand it complicates life especially for the children. Some do see something wrong with it but have trouble admitting or expressing it, and others say it should not be done. A number of people are shocked that it's even a question. The culture has brainwashed many to believe that it's "racist" to oppose interracial marriage. At one time in America, people had a problem with interracial dating and marriage. It was a disappointment to parents — taken as a rejection of one's own father and mother. Often the young people doing it were rebelling and angry. Jesse explains that he is not for interracial dating and marriage. It's a sign of human beings being in the fallen state — a son or daughter would naturally want to be with someone who is like his or her parents, and not deviate from that. But today

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/vaEXOBAlt0E At Church we discussed more why grown men don't move out of their parents' house as adults, why mothers hold onto their children and control them, and why women are so insecure, validating themselves in a way that men don't — it's from the original sin of Eve. They are separated from their earthly fathers, and so separated from God. Parents mess up their children, who turn around and mess up their children. You should go and forgive your parents, especially your mother. Jesse also pointed out that Satan is involved in your thoughts in everything you do, robbing you of joy and appreciation for what you have, and misleading you in things you think you want. He told the story of Joel from the BOND Entrepreneur Academy getting to the point where he's opening up his own dance company tomorrow (Monday!) — but because he found a place to rent for the time being, he began to take that for granted and think he needs to get a building. He began thinking into the future instead of rea

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/2WjXlQgWCIw Today at Church Jesse presented a number of lies that the children of the lie have pushed onto society, which now the culture has accepted. One lie is "racism." People think that blacks are still suffering due to slavery, which ended 150 years ago. Another lie is about abortion, to allow women to kill the baby in the womb, that it's "my body, my choice." Another lie: That all men are rapists and sex offenders. There have been police, ex-husbands, and other men falsely accused of rape by women. After Harvey Weinstein, Jesse saw a video of a woman telling a crowd that now women will be believed, and "we're coming for you" other men who are presumably guilty. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit rebuildingtheman.substack.com

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/dgDS3Q8_E8M Jesse asked his new Biblical Question of the Week: Why are women drawn to weak men? He also answered last week's Biblical Question: How do you see women? He used to see women the way men generally see them — as sex objects, and he'd pretend to be interested in their minds as guys do in order to get with them. A newcomer who found Jesse via YouTube spoke about the relationship between men and women, with many biblical references. Jesse asked him some direct questions, some yes or no questions, to which Jesse wanted simple answers. Instead, the man first provided many caveats and background explanations before really answering directly. He said that women open up men to things they don't normally focus on, such as to talking about relationships. He never married — after Jesse asked why, he eventually said that he had a good mother, but that his sisters were a bit wild or crazy. We talk more... http://rebuildingtheman.com/church This is a public episode. If you would like to d

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/26paaanqdtM Happy Mother's Day! Find out how to love and forgive your mother as you should, even if she's dead now. Jesse tells a couple of stories in the news: A black woman from North Carolina was pulled over in Virginia, allegedly for speeding 70mph on a 55mph speed limit road. She gave the cop some attitude, but turned around and called the cop racist and said she was traumatized. The white officer's body cam shows a completely different story. In another story, an Instagram model was taking a selfie video when her reportedly 7-year-old son came downstairs thirsty for a drink, and she cursed at him, saying the F-word and calling him the B-word. We then read from the Bible in Exodus and quotes from Jesus in the New Testament about honoring your father and mother. You honor your mother by forgiving her. Then it becomes an adult relationship, rather than perpetual mother-and-child relationship. Grown men become like children with their mothers, and feel silly but don't know how to ove

Jesse addressed the destruction of the Boy Scouts, the attack on masculinity. Then he asked: What do you want in life? He talked about gossip and silent prayer as well.For the first few minutes, we discussed that the 100-year-old organization Boy Scouts now allows girls. Why don't men stand up and speak out? Jesse also shared the example of the filthy "comedian" at the White House Correspondents' Dinner — nobody stopped her vulgar performance! We then heard from a young lady who joined us last week — Jesse thought about her statements that she didn't know what to do in life. So Jesse asked everyone, "What do you want in life?" A man joining us for the first time along with his daughter said that he wanted her to grow up to be a woman of good character. Some expressed that they aspire to please God and do good work. One man did not know what he wanted — he only wished not to suffer a poor quality of life in old age before he died. But many people do not know what they want — it is okay not to know! Do not fall

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/QFfy9nj8BaI At Church, Jesse asked his Biblical Question of the Week: Is your house in order, or divided? A newcomer asked about the Silent Prayer, and a man asked about anger. READ: http://rebuildingtheman.com/is-your-house-divided-church-apr-29/ People didn’t seem to know what Jesse meant in asking, “Is your house divided,” or “in order?” Most people answering — Christians familiar with the Bible — felt unclear about the question. People admitted that they want to do right, but don’t always do it.A young woman who found Jesse via YouTube joined us for the first time. She was not sure how to answer the question. At age 26, she lives with her mother, works part time, and would be homeless if she tried to move out. Like others, she asked about the Silent Prayer which Jesse urges people do, any biblical references to it — she felt concerned about falling for “eastern meditation,” which Jesse doesn’t know much of anything about. When she tried it, she felt spiritually attacked. Jesse urge

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/E-7LPlwAYo0 At Church, we talked about whether human beings were created to die, whether we have to die. We also talked with several people living with boyfriend or girlfriend before marriage. http://rebuildingtheman.com/created-die-church-apr-22/ | http://rebuildingtheman.com/church At Church we talked about whether human beings were created to die. Most people believe that they will die someday, although some do not think much about it. We don’t see evidence of people living forever, so many doubt that you can. They live by sight, and not by faith. But Christ overcame death. Jesse says that the world brainwashes and corrupts us as children, instilling anger and wrong belief. Be careful what you believe in — your belief can kill or heal you. Scientists found no detectable limit to human life, and that the body renews itself every seven years.Jesse also talked with a number of people, both newcomers to Church in-person as well as people participating in the Live Chat watching on YouTub

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/lPnIOBWg7tg We dealt with a suicidal young man, fear of God, reaction to President Trump's bombing of Syria, the concepts of trust and freedom lacking today. Read below or here: http://rebuildingtheman.com/church-jesse-lee-peterson-apr-15/A man watching online gave us a Super Chat donation on YouTube, and asked whether we should fear God. So Jesse asked people what they thought. We dealt with this in a prior service, but fearing God simply means reflecting on what God brought you through in life, and appreciating Him for it. Some say they fear God, but it’s an emotional feeling — not what Jesse means, and not a real godly fear.Then Jesse brought up one thing prominent in the news: President Trump bombed Syria after a reported chemical attack there. Many who usually support the president do not support this action by the U.S. — some feel betrayed, including good friends of Jesse’s. Some participated in anti-war rallies. But the people elected him because they trust him. Jesse’s point in

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/KcChEXh_d_s Jesse asks if you have anger, why do you give "spiritual advice"? Should men be "best friends" with women? Don't gossip at or about Church! Know yourself. READ MORE: http://rebuildingtheman.com/give-spiritual-advice-church-apr-8/Jesse started out asking how many people have anger. Some raised their hands, while others were unclear. He then asked how many give “spiritual advice.” If you have anger, you are spiritually blind. If you have not overcome, how do you know the information you share works? One person admitted that it was an egotistical thing. Sometimes people feel right giving advice when asked.One man watching online gave a donation and asked if he should date a woman a few months older than he is. Jesse said he could try it — but no sex! Normally Jesse advises men marry women 5-10 years younger — especially today as men are so weak. If it becomes like a mother-son relationship, run the other way!Something going on at Church that Jesse did not know about — people h

Are you doing greater works than Jesus? At Church on Easter, a number of new people joined us. One man forgave his parents and thanked Jesse, saying, "It worked!"Christ came to put everything back to order, making a way to return to the Father. Jesse suggested that it's more difficult for educated people to return to God. People with degrees, even those in the Bible, are nutcases!Jesse asked his Biblical Question from John 14:12 — Are you doing greater works than Jesus? Jesus said:Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father.One man from Long Beach, California, said he came to Church to thank Jesse. He went to forgive his parents. He recounted telling himself that if he can get rid of his anger, he'd dedicate his life to God. But when it happened, God dedicated him to Himself! He realized Jesse told the truth about men feeling emotional like women, like their mothers. He held a grudge for 30 years a

Jesse talked about questioning anti-gun protestors at March for Our Lives in L.A., then talked alpha/beta, forgiving mothers, overcoming emotions, and prayer. http://rebuildingtheman.com/church On Saturday, many people took part in a protest called "March for Our Lives" — more accurately, March Against Our Lives. They wish to take away the right to bear arms. Jesse asked people why they demonstrated, speaking to children and adults. One black girl agreed with Jesse that teachers should carry guns to protect students. But the teacher did not like her answer and ended the interview. Another girl realized Jesse asked a good question, wondering how an unarmed father can protect his family from an armed criminal. Parents sacrifice their children to public schools.Jesse's producer James read a few paragraphs-long comment about alpha males and beta males. A fellow who watches online suggested that Christians are neither alpha nor beta — that such ideas are from evolutionary psychology, and that only Christ is alpha.

VIDEO: https://youtu.be/Hl53r7QsD08 Sunday, March 18, Jesse asks the question: Can you serve two masters? Some think they do, in that they want to serve God, but they often chase after material things such as money or pleasure, husband, wife, parents, or kids. The Bible, in Matthew, says that no slave can serve two masters — either he'll hate the one and love the other, or be attracted to the one and despise the other. Jesus said this. Jesse also said that there is only one way to please God — by not doubting. One man, attending for the first time, realized and admitted that he loved his daughters more than God. He also starts fights with his wife, because he judges her for repeated actions in the past and he can't let go of his anger about them. Jesse tells him that he must forgive his mother, because he married his mother — in that the spirit in his wife is the same spirit he hated in his mother, and he's attracted to what he hates. Jesse asks him if he's an alpha or beta male — he says he's alpha. Jesse sa

At church, Jesse talked with newcomers about anger, forgiveness of parents and of self, alpha males versus beta males, and dealing with unreasonable people. VIDEO: https://youtu.be/SOijxtz1Pfw One man in his mid-fifties said his father told him he'd never amount to anything. He didn't talk with him for years, but reconnected and feels they have a good relationship now. But he does not talk to his divorced mother who abandoned them. He said he'd like a wife and kids, but never married. Jesse urged him to forgive both of them, and to work on his anger. He also encouraged him to begin to walk and exercise, as he'd reached 300 pounds in weight.Another man in his early thirties explained as best he knew how to forgive your parents. He did it several times with his parents. However, he feels upset with himself, living without a job or his own place. But Jesse recommended he not judge himself — simply accept reality with no anger and move forward with a clear mind.The younger man also asked where to find good Christ

Sunday, March 4, We talked about the question: Were you born in sin? We also discussed with a man and his wife about anger, forgiveness, mothers, fathers, and marriage. We also talked a little about how preachers and others quote the scriptures rather than communicating normally — such as in an interview Jesse did on Apologia Studios with Pastor Jeff Durbin of Arizona. VIDEO: https://youtu.be/TwnnBKZef3s Jesse urged the regulars, and everyone, not to preach at people after service, particularly not new people. Rather, if you want to introducer yourself, keep it light and friendly. If people talk about their problems in church, don't talk to them about their problems after church — but just make small talk; people don't need or want more advice after church, and it's a turnoff to get unsolicited advice. We talked about the question: Were you born in sin? Or, asked perhaps more clearly, were you born a sinner? Many said yes, some said no, and others did not know. Jesse wants people to know for themselves, and n

At Church, Jesse talked about the Florida school shooting and the spiritual issues affecting all people. He also discussed forgiving mothers with newcomers.At the beginning of the service, Jesse asked people if they ever felt depressed, shy, and other emotions. Everyone answered “yes.” Jesse connected these emotions to 19-year-old Nikolas Cruz, who shot and killed at least 17 people at a school in Florida, injuring dozens more. Cruz reportedly said voices in his head told him to commit the murders. Jesse pointed out that whichever “god” we serve controls us — whether the real God or the prince of darkness.Therefore, the problem is spiritual, and not “guns,” nor even “mental illness.”After Jesse finished his point, a young black man watching online from Germany asked a personal question. He said that he lost all of his anger and gained confidence, but at 19 he sleeps with women. Should he continue the sex, or stop? Jesse urged him to stop that. Women want men to do right — not have sex with them until marriage

Sun, Feb 11: At Church, a woman told about a murder in her family the other week. Her nephew killed his wife, cut her up, put her in a suitcase, and tried to burn her body! He was caught and is in jail, headed for prison. She thought of sending him money, but won’t. Jesse told her to let him find Jesus, and stay out of his way. Don't be mama and "help" him. She feels guilty because she took her younger sister, the killer's mother, out to drink at bars when he was a child. She cheated on her husband at that time. She left her husband for another man. Jesse tells of guys he interviewed for The Fallen State who encouraged their wives to be friends and go out; all of them cheated on the men, getting drunk and coming home at 3am. This woman said she loved when her husband told her she couldn't go out. Women like discipline from their husbands or father, as men appreciate discipline from Christ. (Jesse jokes that women don't look right being alcoholic.) Jesse answers an online question on the purpose of Church: to