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Text the Critellis HEREGay penguins, Elmer and Lima are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. The pair have welcomed their first chick by way of surrogacy, at the Rosamund Gifford Zoo in Syracuse, New York. After forming a pair bond for the current breeding season, they brilliantly incubated an egg through to hatching and birth, and are now doing a great job with raising their baby. Check out the story here and give our queer animals the support they deserve! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to catch up on news stories from the past month in a segment called, “In Gay News”.  The guys talk about more rimming on television shows, Grindr murders, MJ Rodriguez’s Emmy win, and (of course)” And Just Like That …”. Tune in to this week’s episode!News Articles Gathered From:Pink News: News ArchiveShit to Put On Your Radar:Join our Virtual Meet & Greet on Wednesday, February 16th at 8pm EST, by clicking here.Support the showSh!t | Leave us a voicemail with your relationship sh!tuation at (903) POD- SHIT. That’s (903) 7

Text the Critellis HERESoon-to-be fathers, Bryan and Chris (@bryan.and.chris) are the #QueerRelationshipGoals of the first episode … OF SEASON FIVE! These guys and their love for one another lets us know they will be amazing fathers and we cannot wait to follow their adventures once the babies are born. Check them out and let them know the Critellis sent you! Then Marko and Tony gather to talk about the chore wars that are (likely) happening in every household.  How do you and your partner split chores? Finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by friends of friends, Luis and Kevin (@nomad_ones). They talk about how they met, how their age difference affects their relationship, and what life in an RV is like for a couple. Such a great start to a brand new season of the podcast!Articles:BETTER by Today: The Chore War: How to Stop Fighting About the Housework - and Get the Cleaning DoneBabyCenter.com: Ending the Chore Wars: How to Get Your Mate to Help on the Home FrontShit to Put On Your Radar:Join

Text the Critellis HEREFor the last episode of 2021, the Critellis finalize their ultimate #QueerRelationshipGoals of 2021 ranking and announce the winners! We are so excited to highlight this couple again, as they are an inspiration, former guests, and friends from afar (and hopefully nearby) and they are … Dee and Elle (@dee_n_elle). Make sure you check them out on IG and support Girlfriend’s Budget and Dee’s book! Give them your love - you’ll be glad you did! Then, Marko and Tony highlight their favorite interviews from 2021 by bringing you snippets from each one.  Check out conversations from such great guests as David Ellison, Anthony Hand (@anthonyhand), Susan Bratton (@susanbratton), Jansen Schamp (@jansencschamp), Kerel, Dawon, & Jerrell (@minoriteareport), Erick Valesco & Jose Resendez (@thehomohomiepodcast), Ted Smith (@tedsmith.life), Eric & Ryan Orrington (@4better.orr.worse), Andrew Sartory and Zach Bulls (@gaymanthriving), and Micah Peterson (@micahhasthefloor). Tune in for all the l

Text the Critellis HERETo close out 2021, Marko and Tony countdown to the ultimate #QueerRelationshipGoals of the fourth season.  Join the guys as they highlight their favorite couples and revisit their impact on the podcast, the Critellis, and the queer relationship narrative.  Who do you think will win? Then a trip down memory lane brings the guys to the best Listener Sh!tuations voicemails and emails of the year. Whether it is how to handle a partner that doesn’t want to get the vaccine and all your trips and adventures are now grounded, or your new partner is bisexual to everyone except their parents and you can’t figure out how you feel about it, the Critellis have some guidance for you! Check out this ode to Relationsh!t with a wrap-up of Listener Sh!tuations for 2021. Shit to Put On Your Radar:The Critellis are taking a break in the month of January but will return with season 5 on February 2nd of 2022.  Re-listen to previous episodes and check out social media for all updates!Relationsh!t Podcast merc

Text the Critellis HEREWe fell in love with this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, Paul Margolin and Sergio Zapata (@paulheartsergio), for SO many reasons.  Not only are they gorgeous, successful, and insanely in love with one another, but they are also wonderful and so full of life - and it makes us smile.  If you want to smile too, check them out on IG! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about a very important vow: “In sickness and health …”. When your partner is sick, it can be very difficult to see them suffer - but taking care of your sick partner can be even harder.  What should you do to make your partner feel better when they are sick? And, do you consider yourself a good caretaker?  Then, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by friend of the podcast, Steve Lowe (@steeeeevn) to talk about creating the artwork for the new “Things Overheard in the Bathroom at the Gay Bar” graphic for the Relationsh!t IG page.  Steve walks us through each character in the scene and tells us about his inspiration

Text the Critellis HEREBeefy beaus, TJ (@racintj), and Bruce (@thenamesbruce1219) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals!  We absolutely love this couple for more than just their muscles - we love their intelligence, success, hobbies, adventures, and of course their love for each other. They are incredible and we know that you all will love them just as much.  Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about the art of good gift-giving - and the demise of bad gift-giving. Do you consider yourself a good gift giver? What is the worst gift you’ve ever received? Tune in to find some tips to be better at giving gifts! Finally, The guys are joined at the Critable by neighbor and good friend, Franck Hodelin (@franckh).  Franck talks to the guys about growing up in the 70’s, coming to terms with his gay identity, and dating while in his 50’s. So much laughter and fun with this week’s episode.Shit to Put On Your Radar:Franck Hodelin has all his artwork available for you to review and purchase on his website, so give

Wives, Tina and Toya (@find_her_keep_her) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. Based in Florida, this insanely gorgeous couple is giving us everything we love in an inspirational couple: love, passion, travel, adventure, and their undeniable boss bitch status! This is black love at its finest and we are absolutely obsessed with them.  Check them out on IG and fall in love with them too! Then, because it is a Holiday week, Marko and Tony were lazy and did not record a new episode for the podcast - but they did not leave you without some Relationsh!t content to listen to! Join the guys for four “best-of” bites of their Patreon-exclusive segment Critelli Crap where they read their relationship problems to each other and try to solve them in a completely unbiased manner. And if you’re not donating to Relationsh!t on Patreon, hopefully this encourages you to do so!Shit to Put On Your Radar:Friend of the podcast and family member of the Critellis, Steve Lowe (@steeeeevn) is showcasing his talent in the artwork

Text the Critellis HEREFiancés, Bradley and Sam (@bradleyandsam) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals. This Minneapolis-based couple loves adventure and each other … and we just LOVE them! Check out their profiles and see all the ways their connection makes them such an adorable couple - and one of our faves. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about whether or not size really does matter.  How many inches is necessary to properly please you? And, how does your penis measure up? The guys take a long and hard look at how penis length and girth controls our lives. Then, the Critellis answer your relationship questions on the November edition of Listener Shituations.Articles:Greatist: Average Penis Size: What It Is and Why It Doesn’t MatterHornet: A Study About the ‘Perfect Penis’ Reveals Women Are Actually a Lot Like Gay MenHornet: 5 Complaints About Having a Giant Penis, According to the ‘Ridiculously Hung Bros.’ of RedditShit to Put On Your Radar:Relationsh!t Podcast merch is available now on the website

Text the Critellis HEREIn Derek and Romaine’s absence, Marko and Tony takeover the DNR 2.0 live show and talk about cheating. Nobody likes a cheater and there is nothing worse than being cheated on - but how do you recover after the original shock of such a betrayal? If you were ever cheated on, how would you react? What does being cheated say about you … or the person that cheated on you? The Critellis sit down with DNR Studios producer, JB, to talk about this topic and more. Tune in and let us know your thoughts!Shit to Put On Your Radar:Relationsh!t Podcast merch is available now on the website.  Head to www.podrelationshit.com/shop right now and snag a Relationsh!t Podcast Signature T-Shirt!Join our Virtual Meet & Greet on Wednesday, November 17th at 8pm EST, by clicking here.Friend of the podcast and creator of the future full-length animated film Maxxie La Wow Drag Shero, Anthony Hand, still needs help launching the project. Head to his Indiegogo page to help with funding!Support the showSh!t | Leav

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, fiancés Ryan Tyler (@cookwithryan) and Michael Mugo (@moo.go) grace the podcast with their adorableness and undeniable love for one another. This chef and accountant not only look amazing together but also show us that relationships are so much better when adventure and friendship are at the forefront. Check them out on IG and show them some love! TRIGGER WARNING - Marko and Tony sit down to talk about a problem plaguing the LGBTQ+ community: intimate partner violence. So many queer relationships are experiencing abuse at the hands of their partner and the Critellis try to figure out why.  Then, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by the host of the Surviving Abuse Podcast, David Keck (@survivingabusepodcast). TRIGGER WARNING - David sits with Marko and Tony to recount an evening of karaoke and drinks with friends that ended with him as the victim of a hate crime. Bravely, David shares his story with the guys, proving that this unimaginable and terrible story can yiel

This week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals hail from Saint Paul, Minnesota. See Shane and Taylor (@barleysboys) in all their flannel glory. You are going to love their picturesque relationship. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about finances. What does it mean when one partner earns more than the other? Is splitting bills 50/50 the only way to manage a household? You might be surprised to find out the answer. Finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by former #QRGs Coach Dee (@deetoxlifecoaching) and Elle (@gfbudget), the amazing power couple @dee_n_elle. Hear about the ladies’ origin story and their amazing success. You won’t want to miss this episode! And don’t forget to purchase Dee’s Book “Coach Dee’s Playbook”.Articles:Stephanie O’Connell: How to Feel Financially Equal (Even When You Are Not)Kinda Frugal: Should Relationships Be 50/50 Financially?Shit to Put On Your Radar:On Friday, November 5th, the Critellis are taking over the Derek & Romaine 2.0 live show, and hope to see you there. Cli

Text the Critellis HEREBoss baes, Chantal Singleton (@thechantalsingleton), and her wife Roben (@robentheceo) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals - and we LOVE them. CEO, Life Coaching, Interior Designing, Real Estate Investing … these ladies do it ALL. Check out their love and many hustles by following them on IG - you’ll be happy that you did! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about emotional and physical connections with your partner - but more specifically, how to build an emotional connection that leads to a physical connection. What do you do when your sex button is directly connected to your emotional button? This week’s topic tries to help us figure it out. Finally, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by intimacy expert (and great-sex-haver) Susan Bratton (@susanbratton). She talks to the guys about having great orgasms, connecting with your partner through your body, and having the best sex of your life (at any age)! This is definitely an episode you’ll want to hear!Articles:NBC News:

We can't get enough of our San Diego-based #QueerRelationshipGoals Jeremy Alan (@jer.alan) and his husband Jedd Davis (@jedd_with_2ds). Smiles, sunshine, and SKIN ... these guys have it all! They are adorable separately and together and we absolutely love them and know you will too.  Check them out on IG! Then, Marko and Tony sit down to revisit a season one topic: being a whole person before getting into a relationship.  There is nothing sexier than a person that knows themselves and has gotten their sh!t together, and that should always be the goal. But where does that journey start? And, how do we accomplish it? And further more ... how do you reconnect with yourself while in a relationship? Join the guys as they try to figure it all out. Finally, Marko and Tony sit down at the Virtual Critable to bring you the October edition of Listener Sh!tuations!Articles:Wheel of Well-Being: Power of Being WholePsychCentral: How to Reconnect to Yourself Shit to Put On Your Radar:Join us tonight (Wednesday, Januar

Text the Critellis HERESWOOOOOON. This week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals has our hearts MELTING. We are in love with wives and mommies, Mary Elizabeth (@marygee_14) and Marissa Escalante (@meeesss_). Stunning, successful, and insanely sweet on each other - these ladies are pure perfection. We absolutely love them and know you will too! Check them out on IG when you can. Then, Mako and Tony chat with one another about gays of the past, as they reflect on queer history and the pioneers that fought for the freedoms the LGBTQ+ community has right now. “If you don’t know where you’ve come from, you don’t know where you’re going” -Maya Angelou. Then, the guys are joined at the Virtual Critable by author Robert Steele, where he shares details from his new book about the life of Jim Foshee, “Banned From California.” This is a great conversation and trip in the way-back-machine, reliving a completely different time for queer people.Articles:The Conversation: The History of ‘Coming Out,’ From Secret Gay Code to Popular Po

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, Mauricio (@mbcmia) and Stephen (@ssc831), the husbands and fathers at @mydosdads are our #QueerRelationshipGoals. Not only are they unapologetically human and wonderfully relatable, but they are also fathers to a beautiful little girl. You can check out the book of their adoption journey here.  We absolutely love them and think you will too! Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about the current state of queer representation in entertainment, especially on TV and in sports. The guys discuss the lack of representation during their youth and the budding presence of queer characters on television as they entered their adolescence. Finally, Marko and Tony are joined at the Critable by the first openly gay professional hockey player, Brock McGillis (@brockmcgillis33) to learn about his journey from denial to acceptance to public figure. We enjoyed the conversation so don't miss this episode!Articles:GLAAD: Where We Are on TV Report 2020NPR: Why There Are Few Openly Gay A

Text the Critellis HEREThis week, Devon Gibby (@devon.gibby) and his boyfriend Jocelyn Maesato (@mjmaximmx) are our #QueerRelationshipGoals, because … just look at them! Not only is Devon a father to two boys, but his relationship with Jocelyn is fun, adventurous, and full of undeniable love.Check them out on IG! You’re going to love them too. Then, Marko and Tony get together to talk about the start of cuffing season.  Foreign to them, tis the season to get cuffed up, but how does it work exactly?  And why is it such a temporary relationship model for so many singles? The guys try to understand it as best they can.  Then, Marko and Tony are joined at the Critable by friend of the podcast and regulation hottie, Micah Peterson (@micahhasthefloor) to hear more about his hot girl summer and what his most recent updates will mean for his future dating life. This is definitely an episode you’re going to love!Articles:MindBodyGreen: Is Cuffing Season a Real Thing? 5 Things Experts Want You To KnowShit to Put On You

Text the Critellis HERENYC husbands and dog dads, Lukus (@lukus) and Sean Estok (@seanestok) are this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals and we cannot get enough of them! Between the restaurant, the new home in P-Town, and the smiles, we don't know what makes us love them more! Check them out on IG and fall in love with them too! You’ll be glad you did. Then, Marko and Tony sit down to talk about vacationing as a couple and how to make traveling to your dream destination successful.  If you’ve ever traveled with your partner, how did you stop yourselves from killing one another? Tune in to the episode to learn some tips and tricks.  And finally, join the guys at the Virtual Critable as they read through the September edition of your Listener Shituations and give ya’ll some guidance … Critelli-style.Articles:Lifehack: 13 Amazing Reasons Why Couples Who Travel Together Stay TogetherTravel + Leisure: 9 Mistakes That Could Ruin Your Romantic Couples’ TripShit to Put On Your Radar:There is still time to join Mark

Text the Critellis HEREThere is nothing better than this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals Bryan and Peter Simmons-Scie (@simmonsscieguys). These Harlem-based husbands are the definition of (black) love and we are here for it! Their adventures (and painted nails) are perfect and we know you are going to love them just as much as we do. Then, Marko and Tony gather to talk about friendships and how theirs have affected their relationship. Is it tough to maintain friendships while in a relationship? And what do you do if your friends don’t like your partner (or vice versa)? The Critellis sit down to discuss this very common problem.  Then, friends of the podcast, Erika and Steve, join Marko and Tony at the Virtual Critable for the September edition of ‘We Ain’t Sh!t’. Laugh with this foursome as they share their views on friendships while in relationships.Articles:Psychology Today: Why Friendships Are Vital to the Health of Your RelationshipHuffPost: 7 Signs Your Relationship is Messing With Your FriendshipsShit to

Text the Critellis HEREThis week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals introduces us to the adorable relationship of wives, Alex (@alxmorgn) and Whitney Morgan (@thewhitneymorgan). These nurses from Utah are beyond adorable and insanely sweet on one another, which is why we are inspired by them.  Check them out on IG and fall in love with them the way we did! Then, Marko and Tony are joined by the creator of the future animated feature film, Maxxie La Wow, Anthony Hand (@anthonyhand).  Anthony joins the guys at the Virtual Critable to talk about his modest upbringing, coming to terms with his queer identity, and the inception of Maxxie La Wow. The Critellis take an entire hour to speak with Anthony about the upcoming film and what Maxxie La Wow will mean for super (s)heroes and queer culture as a whole.Support Maxxie La Wow:Website: maxxie.comInstagram: @maxxielawowFacebook: Maxxie La Wow Official Fan Group Shit to Put On Your Radar:On Wednesday, September 15th, the world premiere of the Maxxie La Wow action/adventure re

Text the Critellis HEREA trip to España introduces us to this week’s #QueerRelationshipGoals, Nel and Lluis (@islandgaycouple). With sunshine, fresh air, and the beach as the backdrop to their love story, it’s no wonder Nel and Lluis’ romance is flourishing! Check them out on IG and join us in wishing for this kind of love and tan lines. Then, Marko and Tony update us all on what is going on in the world with a rare edition of In Queer News.  Join the guys as they talk about Afghanistan, Jojo Siwa, and the Catholic church, as it relates to queer culture.  And finally, the guys gather at the Critable - just the two of them - to revisit the topic that birthed this podcast: monogamy.  Hear how their views have evolved and what monogamy means to them after 12 years together.Articles:Them. : 30% of Gay Men Are In Open Relationships, According to StudyNewNowNext : Dear Gay Men: Stop It With Your Monogamy-ShamingShit to Put On Your Radar:Our September Viirtual Meet & Greet will be on Wednesday, September 22nd, a